The problem with owning a rec property is the payback. After years sponging off friends and relatives at their cabins and lake homes, you eventually have to pay the piper when you finally get your own little slice of paradise. Good guests, it’s said, are like fish. They begin to smell after three days. Whether you’re renting a lakefront property with another family or staying with friends over the long weekend, you’ll want to follow these six recs to ensure you’re invited back.
Don’t be flaky
Firm up your arrival and departure in advance. Nothing is worse than spending a glorious summer day indoors waiting for imminent guests when you could be out in the Kananaskis.
What you need to discuss before vacationing with another family
Does your toddler need a two-hour nap every afternoon in blacked out room? Does someone have specific dietary requirements? Hash this out prior to your trip so everyone knows what they’re getting into.
Should your family spend time alone when vacationing with others?
Don’t expect the hosts to be your only source of entertainment. Cabin fever loves close quarters, so plan an activity at least once a day where your family can get some alone time. Communicate this in advance so nobody’s feelings get hurt.
What’s a thoughtful hostess gift?
A bottle of Aussie plonk doesn’t endear yourself to your hosts if they’re old world oenophiles. Figure out what their preferences are and gift accordingly.
Who’s allowed to discipline your kids?
Shared spaces are no one’s territory, Ground rules should be discussed ahead of time: Can people eat anywhere? When is bed time? The rules don’t have to be the same for all kids, but getting your child used to the idea there might be different rules, sets you up for success.
How to endear yourself to your hosts
Don’t expect to be waited on. Offer to pay for a meal or commandeer the kitchen for a day. Do some dishes. Stripping your bedding and throwing it in the washer before you leave goes a long way.
Have you ever shared a vacation space with another family? How did it go?
Camping with another family is great way to share parenting, but still have your own space. Thank you so much for the tip!
Great tips! I find that traveling with other families is definitely a learned art. We usually travel with other campers which means we have our own space. Definitely cuts down on issues!
I think it was Parenting Power that told me to have family time every day. Whether you go for a walk, to the park, for a drive, whatever. Just make sure you get some time where it’s just yourselves.
Great tip, Maria. That’s one I will share when I’m on CTV tomorrow discussing this blog post.
Can totally relate to this one! Lake life = communal living sometimes, and having all these details sorted out prior makes it WAY easier. Great post!
These are great tips Jody!
That is it. I am going on a holiday with YOU!
I agree that you should plan your own activities when you’re staying at someone else’s home. This is especially true when their home is in a good location, like being by a lake or an amusement park. Seeing the sights will give your hosts a break so you can enjoy each other’s company during your stay. Doing some cleanup during and after your stay is also a good idea, too. Thanks for the article!