My wedding dress dry cleaning fail + giveaway

80s prom dresses

Proof that the 80s were one of fashion’s greatest decades. Or not…

Let me start off by saying, I’m not a hoarder. At least I don’t think I am. I am, however, the keeper of my family’s archives. I’ve got my mom’s old scrapbooks (including her honeymoon one!), her wedding dress and dance costumes from when I was a wee lass. It takes some effort to keep these mementoes – where to store them, how to store them properly, etc… but I think it’s  worth with it.

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Yours truly was the MC of her Junior High School grad. But that posture!

Take a look at these beauties. As you can see, I was a gal who came of age in the 80s. I had not one, not two, but three grad dresses! There’s that polyester peach number (above) for my Junior High Grad. We drove all the way to West Edmonton Mall to hunt that down! Then there’s a lilac-hued Christian Lacroix bubble skirt knock off I had made by a local seamstress. That was when I was in Grade 11 and smugly attended grad as the date of a super tall dude. My actual, official grad dress was a bit, well, let’s just say I don’t have the same sense of style. See below…

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Me and my bestie (same gal from the Grade 9 pic) in our Gr. 12 grad dresses.

My actual grad dress was another Vogue knock off I had custom made. The design itself was pretty fun. It’s the colour combination that’s regrettable. As is painfully obvious, I was in the throes of a purple and red phase. Making matter’s worse, my mom had our seamstress make a bow tie for my date and it was massive. Poor guy!

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I actually still love my wedding dress and don’t cringe when I see pictures of it.

Because I kept all three grad dresses, you know I was going to keep my wedding dress. Again, I knocked off another design (Virgin Bride in London) and had it made in my hometown. I was happy with it, especially because I found some silver silk (or maybe it was satin?), which was way more me than washed out white. Anyway, the dress had a bit of a train, we’re not talking Princess Diana here, but it fishtailed out behind me.

Naturally, our April wedding day came with a light dusting of snow that morphed into muddy sidewalks by mid afternoon. We had the brilliant idea of walking to James Joyce after our pictures at the Fairmont Palliser were finished. As much as I tried to hold up my skirt, it got soiled. But I was newly married! I was a glowing bride! I was tipsy! I really didn’t care.

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I’m actually glad we had that buffer of time between the wedding, pictures and our reception. I don’t know if I’d go back to the Joyce, tho…

Wedding dress dry cleaning fail

After our honeymoon (Cuba, two full weeks, super fun), I took my dress into the little dry cleaner down the block. I’d had a great relationship with them, but in hindsight, I was only dropping off winter coats and shirts to be pressed. They got the mud stains out of my dress no problem, but they total bungled pressing the train. It suddenly had this major crease in it. And I mean major. It didn’t even match the seam. It was so obvious, I didn’t take the dress home.

I had them re-do it, which they did, but it still wasn’t right. So I had them press it for a third time and still, it wasn’t smooth. It was then I gave up. I was annoyed, but more with myself. I know I like to preserve memories. I’m the person who kept her mother’s wedding dress. (Even though the last time I fit into it, I was 14-years-old.) So why didn’t I get the most special dress of my life cared for properly?

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What little girl doesn’t love dressing up in her mom’s wedding dress?

Grad or wedding dress preservation

Ladies, if you’re spending the money on a knock ‘em dead dress, you want to treat it carefully. You want to cover it with a garment bag, so it doesn’t get dusty. You want to hang it properly. You may even wish to store it in an acid-free box. Most importantly, you want to clean it in a way that preserves the integrity of the design and the fabric.

You don’t want a situation like my girlfriend who had her grad dress (black some with some kind of swirly gold design) ruined. I don’t know what happened to it, but I distinctly remember it came out as gold splotches. After one wear, her dress was ruined. (Back in the day we did wear our grad dresses more once.)

When you have a valuable item of clothing, you actually don’t want to get it dry cleaned, you want to get it wet cleaned. Traditional dry cleaning uses a ton of chemicals (and known carcinogens). Wet cleaning is a solvent free, non-toxic way to clean clothing.

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My mom had a double wedding with her sister, but they each had their own bridal party and colour theme.

Fun fact about me: Every time I go get wrapping paper from our basement closet, I smile. That’s where I keep my grad dresses and my mom’s wedding dress. It’s not a high traffic spot, (as per Marie Kondo), but it’s somewhere where my memories aren’t forgotten. I don’t expect my daughter to ever wear these dresses, but that’s not the point. It’s a physical reminder of a rite of passage. And it means always having the best get up for retro parties. You know I do! 

Giveaway

Fishman’s Calgary wants to help you preserve your memories. They’re offering one reader a complimentary custom clean of a special item of clothing, like a wedding or grad dress.

To enter:

  1. Let me know in the comment below if you’ve kept a special item of clothing and what that is.
  2. Receive a double entry for following Fishman’s Instagram. (We cross-check this.)
  3. All comments and follows must be received before midnight, May 16, 2019.
  4. Contest open to residents of Alberta over 18-years of age.
  5. Item to be cleaned must be delivered to a Fishman’s Calgary location before December 31, 2019.
By |2019-05-07T20:34:24-06:00May 7th, 2019|Categories: Style|Tags: , , |14 Comments

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14 Comments

  1. Nancy 09.05.2019 at 15:28 - Reply

    Yes, I have my wedding dress, my father in laws tuxedo, a Hungarian ball gown and my debutante dress. Why we keep these items is always a wonder but I’d be so sad to get rid of them.

    • Jody 17.05.2019 at 08:36 - Reply

      Very curious about a Hungarian ball gown!

  2. Mathilde 09.05.2019 at 16:00 - Reply

    I will talk about the future because I am getting married on July 6 this year and I am planning to keep my wedding dress 😍

  3. Rachel Rasmussen 09.05.2019 at 17:55 - Reply

    I have my wedding dress from 13 years ago and I still try it on as motivation to still fit in it every year. I’d like to have a wedding dress party sometime. My daughter is excited that the dress will be hers someday.

  4. Caryn s 09.05.2019 at 23:17 - Reply

    I have my wedding dress and a brudesmaid dress ìn the closet. Both need a good cleaning. I also follow on instagram as @carschick

  5. Sue 12.05.2019 at 07:38 - Reply

    I still have my wedding dress but it’s not properly stored- just in a garment bag. It would be wonderful to preserve it properly.

  6. Matt McQueen 14.05.2019 at 15:11 - Reply

    I’d love to pass this prize on to my friend Deb who recently got married. I know she could use this for her dress.

  7. Greta Duncan 14.05.2019 at 15:13 - Reply

    My wedding dress from 13 years ago… needs a proper cleaning that I just never got to 😉 Thanks for the chance!

  8. Ashley v 14.05.2019 at 20:04 - Reply

    My wedding dress from 3 years ago has never been cleaned properly after our Mexican wedding. It was my my dream dress that I found despite it being discontinued and I desperately need to clean it.

  9. Ashley V 15.05.2019 at 19:26 - Reply

    I commented on this on the 14th – but I cannot seem to find my comment, apologies if this ends up being a duplicate!

    My wedding dress from 3 years ago still hasn’t been cleaned and I would love to preserve it so that I can maybe one day pass it on.

    • Jody 17.05.2019 at 08:35 - Reply

      I hope you do!

  10. Carrie 16.05.2019 at 09:37 - Reply

    It hasn’t been worn yet but I have a second hand wedding dress I bought for my august wedding. With all the bills catching up, I cant justify the cost of cleaning it before the big day. This would make my wedding and make me feel as if I have my very own new dress to wear!

    • Jody 17.05.2019 at 08:35 - Reply

      We can’t wait to see pics of your wedding dress!

  11. Nancy 16.05.2019 at 20:39 - Reply

    I have my wedding dress. We just got married in March. It for sure needs to be cleaned after doing a few shotskis! Nancyg84 on Instagram.

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